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Thursday, July 22, 2010

Face Reading Thirukkural (part 2)



In reference to face reading, Thiruvalluvar emphasizes the remaining kural in chapter 71 to our eyes which forms the other important organ on our face. Eye contact falls along the five categories of non-verbal communication besides gesticulations, paralanguage, and posture and overall facial expression. In kural 705, Valluvar first question the importance of eyes that necessitates the task of

face reading as below:




Kurippir Kurippunaraa Vaayin Uruppinul Enna Payaththavo Kan?



Among senses what is the speciality of eye, if thought by thought
one cannot descry?


Our eyes need the skill of reading one's mind by the expressions on the face. Eyes are not only for seeing at the surface level but should be able to probe deeper. The eyes enable to communicate everything to the world. If we are not able to understand the meaning from the eyes of other(s), then our eyes may not be consider as a useful organ.


In kural 93, Valluvar states that


Mukaththaan Amarndhuinidhu Nokki Akaththaanaam Inso Linadhe Aram


With brighty beaming smile, kindly light love of loving eye, And heart sincere to utter pleasant word is charity



A spoken word is merely a word, but a word expressed upon the sincerity of the eyes will allow the words spoken to reach the minds of a person we spoken to. This is why the eye contact is crucial. Similar to kural 93, again kural 1100 from the section of love, Thiruvalluvar again emphasizes further on the same point as below:



Kannotu Kaninai Nokkokkin Vaaichchorkal Enna Payanum Ila
When eye to answering eye reveals, the words of the mouths are of no use whatever


It can be interpreted that eye contact is a non-verbal ability to communicate, and it often equals to the ability to verbally express a thought. Interestingly, this non-verbal communication skill often speaks louder than the words.


Whereas in kural 708, Thiruvalluvar confirms that eyes can help an individual or a face reader to identify the nature of relationship with another person.


Pakaimaiyum Kenmaiyum Kannuraikkum Kannin Vakaimai Unarvaarp Perin


Look at the eyes of a person. They would convincingly reflect both
friendliness and hostility lying in their minds.


Eye contact can relay ones inner most intimate thoughts and desires. For instance, a longing stare or the ability to smile with the eyes like a super model can often deliver the subtle message of interest. On the flip side, anger, disgust, and dissatisfaction can also be easily delivered through ones eye contact.

The last kural in chapter 71 states concludes


Nunniyam Enpaar Alakkungol Kaanungaal Kannalladhu Illai Pira


Observe those who are said to subtly with their mind's eye – their singular
measuring rod is their eyes.



This interprets there is nothing more revealing than the eyes for assessing the subtleties lying in the minds of others.

Beside chapter 71, kural relating to eye contact are mentioned in chapter 58 and chapter 110. Table-1 below summarises all those relevant kural from chapter 58 but refers other kural referring similar ideas:

Kural

573

Transliteration

Panennaam Paatarku Iyaipindrel Kanennaam Kannottam Illaadha Kan

English Translation

Of what avail is a song if it be inconsistent with harmony? what is the use of eyes which possess no kindliness

Kural

574

Transliteration

Ulapol Mukaththevan Seyyum Alavinaal Kannottam Illaadha Kan

English Translation

Beyond appearing to be in the face, what good do they do those eyes in which are no well-regulated kindnesses?

Kural

575

Transliteration

Kannirku Anikalam Kannottam Aqdhindrel Punnendru Unarap Patum

English Translation

Kind looks are the ornaments of the eyes; without these they will be considered (by the wise) to be merely two sores

Kural

576

Transliteration

Manno Tiyaindha Maraththanaiyar Kanno Tiyaindhukan Notaa Thavar

English Translation

They resemble the trees of the earth, who although they have eyes, never look kindly (on others)

Kural

577

Transliteration

Kannottam Illavar Kannilar KannutaiyaarKannottam Inmaiyum Il

English Translation

Men without kind looks are men without eyes; those who (really) have eyes are also not devoid of kind looks



All the kural highlighted in Table-1 refers to eyes from the aspect of kindliness which can be expressed through the way we look at others.

Finally kural from chapter 110 is summarises into Table-2 as below which express the eye contact that may happen between lovers:

Kural

1091

Transliteration

Irunokku Ivalunkan Ulladhu OrunokkuNoinokkon Rannoi Marundhu

English Translation

There are two looks in the dyed eyes of this (fair one); one causes pain, and the other is the cure thereof

Kural

1092

Transliteration

Kankalavu Kollum Sirunokkam Kaamaththil Sempaakam Andru Peridhu

English Translation

A single stolen glance of her eyes is more than half the pleasure (of sexual embrace)

Kural

1094

Transliteration

Yaannokkum Kaalai Nilannokkum Nokkaakkaal Thaannokki Mella Nakum

English Translation

When I look, she looks down; when I do not, she looks and smiles gently

Kural

1095

Transliteration

Kurikkontu Nokkaamai Allaal Orukan Sirakkaniththaal Pola Nakum

English Translation

She not only avoids a direct look at me, but looks as it were with a half-closed eye and smiles

Kural

1097

Transliteration

Seraaach Chirusollum Setraarpol Nokkum
Uraaarpondru Utraar Kurippu

English Translation

Little words that are harsh and looks that are hateful are (but) the expressions of lovers who wish to act like strangers

Kural

1098

Transliteration

Asaiyiyarku Untaantor Eeryaan Nokkap Pasaiyinal Paiya Nakum

English Translation

When I look, the pitying maid looks in return and smiles gently; and that is a comforting sign for me

Kural

1099

Transliteration

Edhilaar Polap Podhunokku Nokkudhal Kaadhalaar Kanne Ula

English Translation

Both the lovers are capable of looking at each other in an ordinary way, as if they were perfect strangers


Although Thiruvalluvar praises the skill of face reading 2000 years back but it not seems to play much important role in Tamil culture today. Unlike the Chinese traditional medicine practitioners, the Tamil who are famous with Siddha medicine practice does not practice face reading very seriously. Face reading which plays important role in Behavioural Studies especially in communication skill need to be given the importance as non-verbal expressions act as an interactive medium in the communication. Mastering this technique will save our time and to tactfully dealing with many people in our daily life.
References:

  1. Gokulnath's Blog : http://www.gokulnath.com/thirukural/
  2. Insight through Body Language and Nonverbal references in Tirukkural : http://www.languageinindia.com/feb2010/subramaninonverbal.pdf
  3. Thirukkural Repacked and Made Easy : http://thirukkuralmadeeasy.blogspot.com/

Face Reading in Thirukkural (part 1)

Human beings possess THREE bodies. First, there is the physical body, which we can see and is tangible. It is solid and has a shape, a colour and a texture. The second and third bodies are the mental and the spiritual which are intangible and merge with the physical body.


Our true nature begins to take on a physical form on our face which like referred in Tamil proverb as Agathin Azhagu Mugathil Theriyum- The beauty of the soul is in known in the face. Meaning: Face is the index of the mind.

Thiruvalluvar in kural 706 states the same as "Atuththadhu Kaattum Palingupol Nenjam Katuththadhu Kaattum Mukam" which means - As a mirror shows what is in front, so the face reveals the full mind. Meaning Mirror always reflects what is before it. Similarly, the human face is the mirror of what is inside one's mind. By seeing one's face, we would be able to interpret what is happening within.

Face is where our emotions (fear, surprise, sadness, disgust, anger, anticipation, joy, acceptance and neutral emotion) and our state of health are first revealed. Valluvar emphasises face reading through kural 708 where he written Mukamnokki Nirka Amaiyum Akamnokki Utra Thunarvaarp Perin which means Learn to study the face of people. It is a great skill to understanding what lies underneath. This oppose to Shakespeare's idea in his play Macbeth: "There's no art to find the mind's construction in the face". For the face is truly an opened book.


For thousands of years, the philosophers like Thiruvalluvar, Aristotle ,Gui-Gu Tze and others has wondered if our facial features could determine our fate or personality.

Thiruvalluvar in his Thirukkural devoted chapter 71 for this purpose where kural 701 states:

Kooraamai Nokkake Kuripparivaan Egngnaandrum Maaraaneer Vaiyak Ahni

Who knows the sign, and reads unuttered thought, the gem is he,
Of earth round traversed by the changeless sea


This can be interpreted as among the greatest ability in this world is face reading.This ability calls for identifying the visitor's inner intentions by a mere look at his face without the need to talk to him.

In kural 702 he further praises the person with face reading ability with certitude having divine power:

Aiyap Pataaadhu Akaththadhu Unarvaanaith Theyvaththo Oppak Kolal

Take upon that man as God who reads the thought of another man with certitude.


The man who possesses the power to unmistakably discern what lies within another's mind can be considered to possess the divine powers.

Thiruvalluvar recommends one (could be CEO or a minister) to have an associate or advisor who has the ability to face read at any cost; as in kural 703 below:


Kurippir Kurippunar Vaarai Uruppinul Yaadhu Kotuththum Kolal

Behold the men that can judge a man's intentions from his looks; take them into council at whatever cost.

In kural 704, he justifies the above statement by comparing the worth of a face reader with those without the skill.


Kuriththadhu Kooraamaik Kolvaaro Tenai Uruppo Ranaiyaraal Veru

Those who understand one's thoughts without being informed (thereof) and those who do not, may (indeed) resemble one another bodily; but they form class apart.

Also means, the ability of those who can scan another's mind is far superior to the others we may have around us.

As mentioned at the beginning of this article that face reveals ones emotion and state of health which Thiruvalluvar highlighted in kural 708 and explained above. In Kural 707 he concludes:

Mukaththin Mudhukkuraindhadhu Undho Uvappinum Kaayinum Thaanmun Thurum


Human face is the index of both happiness and agony in the mind of the owner.


Tiruvalluvar through kural 824 however warns a hypocrite face would not be able to justifiably understand by face reading.


Mukaththin Iniya Nakaaa Akaththinnaa Vanjarai Anjap Patum

A person having capacity of reading the facial expressions of an individual has no need to converse since the face exhibits the personal feelings and intensity of psyche to the world.

Exercise caution when dealing with deceitful person who may carry smile at their face but guile at their heart.

All the above kural agrees with the first scientific study of non-verbal communication done by Charles Darwin's in his book "The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals (1872)" i.e. more than thousand years after Valluvar composed kural 706. Darwin argued that all mammals show emotion reliably in their faces. In 2004 findings by Gerdd I. and Henry H also confirms that most of the human communication is by non-verbal means where 93% of our feelings are expressed in a non-verbal way and our words only convey 7% of what we are saying.

In ancient Greece, Aristotle wrote extensively on physiognomy - the assessment of a person's character or personality from their outer appearance, especially the face. He categorizes his findings into six chapters that included physical characteristics of face, body and voice. The Classical scholars, such as Homer and Hippocrates, wrote of face reading as an ancient method of practical philosophy.

In the Middle Ages physiognomy was combined with astrology and became part of the divination arts. By the 18th & 19th century it was used in Europe as a separate study of criminology where facial features were used to identify potential criminals. In the 20th century it was lost to folklore and superstition. But, face reading has re-emerged in the 21st century as a guide in psychoanalysis or, as a tool for a competitive edge in the executive boardrooms of corporate America. It is no longer a parlour game. The continuous interest in face reading has given credence to an art that the Chinese have always known has been an important guide in human understanding.

In China, the father of face reading is often credited to the philosopher Gui-Gu Tze, who lived during the Warring State Period (481-221 BC). His book Xiang Bian Wei Mang is still in print to this very day and is studied by serious students of physiognomy.

Continues in part 2.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Insight through Body Language and Nonverbal references in Tirukkural

Source : http://www.languageinindia.com/feb2010/subramaninonverbal.pdf
Author : R. Subramani, Ph.D.

Tamil Language has rich traditions and literatures; it possesses social values and universal thoughts. Tirukkural is one such ancient scripture in Tamil, and consists of 1300 couplets (two lines of verse) which are popularly known as Kural. They are grouped into three major sections of Virtue, Wealth and Pleasure.

Tiruvalluvar’s Tirukkural has exclusively deals two units of couplets on non verbal communication. The importance of the face and the eyes in communication are emphasized in the couplets. Anger, authority, fear, timidity, coyness, confidence, diffidence, etc. can be decoded from one's gaze. They can signal intimacy, concern, naughtiness, joy, surprise, curiosity, affection and love, pleading for mercy, attempts to fake.

Linguistic scholar M.S.Thirumalai has cited many literary references of communication through Eyes. His text reads as ‘Eye as a communicative medium has referred to in many poems and other works of literary art. The expression of emotion via eye attracts special notice in dramatic works also. At the ritual level, eyes are seen as 'a means of expressing feelings, of imposing silence, will, love or reverence, a means also of participating in the essence and nature of the person or object looked at'.

The human face is extremely expressive, and able to exhibit immeasurable emotions without pronouncing a word. Facial expressions are universal and they communicate information about emotions, regulates interpersonal behavior and perceptions. The human face is the most complex and resourceful. It is a rich and versatile instrument in serving many different functions. It serves as a window to display the circumstances of the person. Through the face we can able to make one's behavior more predictable and understandable.

Tiruvalluvar extensively deal with body language in his literary work. In the couplets 701-710, we can find descriptive interpretations on Body language and non verbal communication. One can easily identify the Insight; feelings, thoughts, mindset of the individual through his/her face, and eyes. The encoder (sender) and decoder (receiver) can mutually identify the state of mind and nature of the message through body language. This has been explicitly appeared in the couplets of Tirukkural. Facial expressions, Eye contact, reading the eyes are widely uttered in the literary portions.

As noted above, emotions and feelings can be decoded through facial expressions and gazes. The below uttered couplets encapsulates the active transformation of messages between the senders and receivers. The face can act as a medium for human communication. Tirukkural couplet reads thus:

Who knows the sign, and reads unuttered thought, the gem is he,
Of earth round traversed by the changeless sea. (701)


The English commentator G.U. Pope commented as ‘the minister who by looking (at the king) understands his mind without being told (of it), will be a perpetual ornament to the world which is surrounded by a never-drying sea’. The face is an organ of emotions and, it provides vital clues to our own feelings and those of the people around us.
Our face could be able to offer vivid expressions, and act as a visual display, emotions can appear instantly, and then suddenly vanished and new expressions may appear. Valluvar emphasized that we must have companionship with those who are having the capacity of reading the facial expressions of the individual. His versions read thus:
Who by the sign the signs interpret plain,
Give any member up his aid to gain. (703)


The commentary of the articulated version says that ‘The king should ever give whatever (is asked) of his belongings and secure him who, by the indications (of his own mind) is able to read those of another’. Reading the signs and symbols from the facial expression of the individual is considered as a valuable art in interpersonal communication.

The face is a powerful channel for nonverbal communication. We encode messages through facial expressions; at the same time decode faces around us. It is evident that face can reveal the internal images of the person. In this context valluvar text reads as:

As forms around in crystal mirrored clear we find,
The face will show what's throbbing in the mind. (706)

The commentator said that ‘As the mirror reflects what is near so does the face show what is uppermost in the mind’.

We constantly monitor the face because it provides vital clues to a notable range of possibilities, attraction, whether a person likes or dislikes us. The face has the tendency of reflecting the inner feelings of the person. The face acts as an indicator of the body. In this context valluvar text reads as:

Than speaking countenance hath aught more prescient skill?
Rejoice or burn with rage, 'tis the first herald still! (707)


The commentary interpreted as ‘Is there anything, as full of knowledge as the face? (No) it precedes the mind, whether (the latter is) pleased or vexed’. Human Face may exhibit the personal feelings and the intensity of the psyche to the world.

The face contains influential signs. Our face also plays a significant role in physical attractiveness. If you have a capacity of reading the facial expressions of the individual, no need to have conversation with the person.

The following text of Tiruvalluvar is evidently supporting the theories of nonverbal communication. They are:

To see the face is quite enough, in presence brought,
When men can look within and know the lurking thought. (708)


The meaning interpreted as ‘If the king gets those who by looking into his mind can understand (and remove) what has occurred (to him) it is enough that he stand looking at their face’.

The eyes can able to communicate everything to the world. If a person is not able to make out the meaning from the eyes of others, the encoder eyes may not consider as a useful organ. Valluvar text reads as:

By sign who knows not sings to comprehend, what gain,
'Mid all his members, from his eyes does he obtain? (705)


The commentator interpreted that ‘Of what use are the eyes amongst one's members, if they cannot by their own indications dive those of another?’ According to valluvar, eyes can act as an important medium for non verbal communication.
The eyes can help an individual to identify the nature of relationship with the person. Tiruvalluvar articulates as:

The eye speaks out the hate or friendly soul of man;
To those who know the eye's swift varying moods to scan. (709)


The meaning says ‘If a king gets ministers who can read the movements of the eye, the eyes (of foreign kings) will (themselves) reveal (to him) their hatred or friendship’. Eyes are performing as a diplomat in defining the relationship of the individual with the society.

Eyes are the measurement scale to examine the state of mind of the individual. In this context Tiruvalluvar couplets reads thus:


The men of keen discerning soul no other test apply
(When you their secret ask) than man's revealing eye (710)


The commentary says ‘The measuring-rod of those (ministers) who say we are acute will on inquiry be found to be their (own) eyes and nothing else’.

More interestingly, Tiruvalluvar has written many couplets about nature of love. The lovers can mutually exchanging messages through signs. The following versions have supplied explicit meanings of sign language .The texts read as:


Her painted eyes two glances dart
One hurts and other heals my heart (1091)


G.U. Pope’s commentary says that ‘There are two looks in the dyed eyes of this (fair one); one causes pain, and the other cures. Each eye has different functions in the context of love’.

Another couplet describes the notion of eye sight; it provides meaning for each form of sight. More interestingly, Eye look may exchange different meanings between the lovers. The text reads thus:


The slighting words that anger feign, while eyes their love reveal.
Are signs of those that love, but would their love conceal. (1097)


The commentary is ‘Little words that are harsh and looks that are hateful are (but) the expressions of lovers who wish to act like strangers’. The signs of lovers have different meaning in the public place.

Tiruvalluvar has strongly advocating the potential of non verbal communication. If the lovers have reached mutual agreement through gaze, there are no uses for words. The texts read as:


The words of mouth are of no use
When the eyes to eye agrees the gaze (1100)


The commentary is ‘the words of the mouths are of no use whatever, when there is perfect agreement between the eyes (of lovers)’. Tiruvalluvar points out that eyes are crucial in reading the mind of a person.

Conclusion

Nonverbal communication has strong association with verbal communication and is considered as an accompanying medium. Wordless communication alone speaks volumes. The nonverbal cues which are indicated in the couplets have supply new dimensions for nonverbal communicators. Facial expressions, gaze including eye contact, the posture of the body and gestures convey lot more to the receiver. Tirukkural couplets points out that facial expressions and gazes, eye contacts are dynamically exchanging the messages between the encoder and decoder.

In this process sender and receiver can simultaneously decode the messages. Thereby Valluvar’s nonverbal expressions act as an interactive medium in the communication. Valluvar’s couplets are not only points out the expressions and feelings of the sender and they talk about the receivers as well. More interestingly few couplets have supplied the meaning for gaze of the lovers. Human body is an external vehicle to communicate messages to the world. The analyzed couplets have provides new insight for non verbal communication and further analyses may offer more and more explanations on body language.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

IS Mr. STEPHEN R.COVEY INFLUENCED BY THIRUKKURAL?

Dr. S. N. Soundara Rajan, PGDM(IIM-A) & Mrs. Shanthi Nachiappan, M.B.A., M.Phil

“The Seven habits of highly effective people” , the book written by Stephen R Covey, is as an International Best seller on Personality Development. Every Management educator/ trainer/ speaker worth his/her salt has quoted Stephen Covey in their lectures. Leading Western Management Trainers and CEOs of top Companies showered praises on the author.

Mr.Tom Peters said “Few Students of Management and Organisation and People have thought as long and hard about first principles" as Stephen Covey.

In the book, he offers us an opportunity not a how to guide. The opportunity is to explore ourselves and our impact on others and to do so by taking advantage of his profound insights. No doubt, it is a wonderful book that could change our life.

All the 7 habits listed by Mr.Covey and many more were found in the Tamil Veda, the Universal Veda, the Divine Book Thirukural written by Thiruvalluvar 2000 years before. This review articles attempts to trace out the couplets in Thirukurral which reflect the Seven Habits of highly effective people by Stephen Covey.

COMPARISION OF THIRUVALLUVAR’S KURAL WITH STEPHEN COVEY’S 7 HABITS:

1.PRO-ACTIVITY DEFINED:

Pro-activity means more than merely taking initiative. It means that as human-beings we are responsible for our lives. Our behaviour is a function of our decisions, not our conditions. We can sub-ordinate feelings to values. We have the initiative and the responsibility to make things happen. Look at the word responsibility - “ response – ability “ – the ability to choose your response. Highly pro-active people recognize the responsibility.

This idea has been brought out by Thiruvalluvar in the following Kural Nos.595,619,& 666 :-

THE LOTUS RISES WITH THE WATER, AND A MAN AS HIGH AS HIS WILL.” ( 595)

EVEN IF FATE WILLNOT, EXERTION WILL PAY THE WAGES OF EFFORT “ (619)

ALL ONE AIMS AT CAN BE GAINED IF ONE IS BUT FIRM.” (666)

2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND:

WHAT LIES BEHIND US AND WHAT LIES BEFORE US ARE TINY MATTERS COMPARED TO WHAT LIES WITHIN US”. - OLIVER WENDELL HOLMES.

Begin with the end in mind is to begin today with the image, picture or paradigm of the end of your life as your frame of reference of the criterion by which everything else is examined. Each part of your life – today’s behaviour, tomorrow’s behaviour, etc can be examined in the context of the whole, of what really matters most to you.

To begin with the end in mind means to start with a clear understanding of your destination. It means to know where you’re going so that you better understand where you are now and so that the steps you take are always in the right direction.

Now let us see how Tiruvaluvar explains this concept: (kural nos. :67,69,236,463,467)

THE GOOD ONE CAN DO ONE’S SON IS TO PLACE HIM IN THE VAN OF LEARNED MAN”. (67)

A WOMAN REJOICES AT THE BIRTH OF A SON - EVEN MORE WHEN HE IS PRAISED”. (69)

BE BORN, IF YOU MUST, FOR FAME: OR ELSE BETTER NOT BE BORN AT ALL.” (236)

IT IS NOT WISDOM TO LOSE THE CAPITAL FOR THE SAKE OF INTEREST.” (463)

THINK AND ACT; TO ACT AND THEN TO THINK IS FOLLY.” (467)

3.PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST:

THINGS WHICH MATTER MOST MUST NEVER BE AT THE MERCY OF THINGS WHICH MATTER LEAST
GOETHE.

Effective management is putting first things first.

Time management:

Time management can be captured in a single phrase:

“Organise and execute around priorities”.

Thiruvalluvar stressed the importance of putting first things first in the following kurals ( nos.: 483,484,485,489)

WHAT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR RIGHT MEANS AT THE RIGHT TIME.” (483)

THE WHOLE WORLD IS HIS WHO CHOOSES THE RIGHT TIME AND PLACE”. (484)

WORLD-CONQUERER BIDES HIS TIME UNPERTURBED”. (485)

WHEN THE RARE CHANCE COMES, SEIZE IT TO DO THE RARE DEED”.(489)

4. THINK WIN/WIN:

There can be no friendship without confidence and no confidence without integrity” - SAMUEL JOHNSON

Thiruvalluvar talks about friendship in nearly 5 chapters ( 50 kurals in Chapters 79-83 ) (No: 789)

FRIENDSHIP REIGNS THERE WHERE, EVER THE SAME, IT GIVES EVERY HELP”. (789)

a. CHARACTER : INTEGRITY :DEFINED INTEGRITY AS THE VALUE WE PLACE ON OURSELVES” (KURAL : 294)

NOT FALSE TO ONE’S OWN CONSCIENCE ONE WILL REIGN IN ALL THE WORLD’S CONSCIOUSNESS”. (294)

B. MATURITY : MANAGEMENT GRID :

MATURITY is the balance between courage and consideration. If a person can express his feelings and convictions with courage balanced with consideration for the feelings and convictions of another person, he is mature, particularly if the issue is very important to both parties. (kural No : 578)

THE WORLD IS HIS WHO DOES HIS JOB WITH SYMPATHY”.(578).

C. ADUNDANCE MENTALITY:

The abundance mentality, on the other hand flows out of a deep inner sense of personal worth and security. It is the paradigm that there is a plenty out there and enough to spare for everybody. It results in sharing of prestige, of recognition, of profits, of decision making. It opens possibilities; options alternatives and creativity.

The abundance mentality takes the personal joy, satisfaction, etc. (kural No: 245)

OUR WIND-BLOWN WORLD ATTESTS THAT GRIEF NEVER AFFLICTS THE KINDLY”. (245) (kural No: 231)

THE ONLY ASSET IN LIFE IS FAME THAT COMES OF CHARITY”. (231)

5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND THAN TO BE UNDERSTOOD:

This principle is the key to effective interpersonal communication. (Kural No:420)

WHAT MATTERS IF THEY LIVE OR DIE WHOSE TASTE IS IN THEIR TONGUES, NOT EARS?” (420)

EMPATHIC LISTENING:

“Seek first to understand” involves a very deep shift in paradigm. We typically seek first to be understood. Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply. They are either speaking or preparing to speak.

Empathic ( from empathy) listening gets inside another person’s frame of reference. You look out through it, you see the world the way they see the world. Kural No 250

WHEN YOU THREATEN A WEAKER THAN YOURSELF THINK OF YOURSELF BEFORE A BULLY”. (250)

ON UNDERSTANDING ONE’S MIND:

For understanding one’s mind the listener should not listen to the words spoken alone but watch the gestures.
KURAL NOS. : 701, 705.

HE IS A JEWEL ON THIS SEA-GRIT EARTH WHO CAN READ A THOUGHT WITHOUT BEING TOLD”. (701)

WHAT USE ARE EYES THAT CANNOT READ A MAN’S THOUGHTS ON HIS FACE” (705).

6. SYNERGIZE:

I take as my guide the hope of a saint:
in crucial things, unity-
in important things, diversity –
in all things, generosity.


What is synergy?

It means that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. It means that the relationship which the parts have to each other is a part in and of itself. It is not only a part, but the most catalytic, the most empowering, the unifying and the most exciting part.

SYNERGISTIC COMMUNICATION:

“When you communicate synergistically, you are simply opening your mind and heart and expressions to new possibilities, new alternatives, new options. Kural No: 91, 97, 200.

THOSE ARE SWEET WORDS WHICH MEN OF VIRTUE SPEAK MINGLING LOVE WITH SINCERITY”. (91).

HELPFUL WORDS YOKED WITH COURTESY BREED JUSTICE AND STRENGTHEN VIRTUE”. (97).

SPEAK WORDS WHICH ARE USEFUL, NEVER THOSE THAT ARE VAIN”. (200)

7. SHARPEN THE SAW:

Sharpening the saw is personal P.C. It’s preserving and enhancing the greatest asset you have – you.

It’s renewing the 4 dimensions of your nature- physical, spiritual, mental and Social/emotional

PHYSICAL :( EXERCISE, NUTRITION, STRESS MANAGEMENT)
SOCIAL/EMOTIONAL : (SERVICE, EMPATHY, SYNERGY, INTRINSIC SECURITY)
SPIRITUAL : (VALUE CLARIFICATION AND COMMITMENT, STUDY AND MEDITATION)
MENTAL : ( READING, VISUALIZING, PLANNING, WRITING)

Sound motivation and organization theory embrace these 4 dimension or motivations.
It means exercising all 4 dimensions of our nature, regularly and consistently in wise and balanced ways.

1.PHYSICAL:
The physical dimension involves caring effectively for our physical body – eating the right kinds of foods, street management, etc. Kural No:922.

DRINK NO WINE, OR LET THEM DRINK IT WHO DO NOT CARE WHAT WISE MEN THINK” (922)

ABSTINENCE FROM FLESH:
Kural No : 255,257

NOT BEING SWALLOWED IS LIFE; AND HELL WILL SWALLOW THE MEAT-EATER”. (255)

KNOW MEAT FOR AN ANIMAL’S SORE THAT IT IS, AND YOU WILL NOT EAT IT.” (257)

The highly successful business Maharajahs of this ancient land are Marwari Businessman like Dhirubhai Ambani, Rahul Kumar Bajaj, Aditya Vikram Birla, Ram Prasad Goenka, etc. This successful business community -Marwaris were Teetotallers and pure vegetarians.

CRISIS MANAGEMENT
: KURAL NO:621, 625.

LAUGH AT MISFORTUNE – NOTHING SO ABLE TO TRIUMPH OVER IT”. (621)

THE MAN WHO CAN DEFY CEASELESS TROUBLE TROUBLES IT”. (625)

THE SPIRITUAL DIMENSION:

Renewing the spiritual dimension provides leadership to our life. The spiritual dimension is our core, our center, our commitment to our system. It’s a very private area of life and a supremely important one. It draws upon the sources that inspire and uplift us and tie us to the timeless truths of all humanity. And people do it very, very differently.

Kural Nos. 3,10.

LONG LIFE ON EARTH IS THEIRS WHO CLASP THE GLORIOUS FLOWER-EMBEDDED FEET”. (3)

THE OCEAN OF BIRTHS CAN BE CROSSED BY THOSE WHO CLASP GOD’S FEET, AND NONE ELSE”. (10).

Religious leader David O.Mckay taught, “The greatest battles of life are fought out daily in the silent chambers of the soul”. If we win the battles there, if we settle the issues that inwardly conflict, we feel a sense of peace, a sense of knowing what we are about. And we will find that the public victories – where we tend to think co-operatively, to promote the welfare and good of other people, and to be genuinely happy for other people’s successes – will follow naturally.

THE MENTAL DIMENSION
:

Most of our mental development and study discipline comes through formal education. But as soon as we leave the external discipline of school, many of us let our minds atrophy. We don’t do any more serious reading, we don’t explore new subjects in any real depth outside our action fields, we don’t think analytically, we don’t write – at least not critically or in a way that tests our ability to express ourselves in distilled, clear and concise language.

Education – Continuing education, continually honing and expanding the mind – is vital mental renewal. It is so valuable to read broadly and to expose yourself to great minds.

The person who does not read is no better off than the person who can’t read”.
Kural No: 397,398.

WHY DOES ONE STOP LEARNING TILL HE DIES WHEN IT MAKES ALL LANDS AND PLACES HIS?”. (397)

THE LEARNING ACQUIRED IN ONE BIRTH HELPS A MAN IN SEVEN” . ( 398)

THE SOCIAL/EMOTIONAL DIMENSION:

The social/emotional dimension focuses on habits 4,5,6 – centered on the principles of interpersonal leadership, empathic communication and creative co-operation. The social and emotional dimensions of our lives are tied together because our emotional life is primarily, but not exclusively, developed out of and manifested in our relationships with others. Man is a social animal so the ethic is

EARN THY NEIGHBOUR’S LOVE

Thiruvalluvar talks about love like this : Kural No : 72, 74.

THE LOVELESS GRASP ALL; WHILE THE LOVING WITH THEIR VERY BONES HELP OTHERS”. (72)

FROM LOVE, DEVOTION COMES; AND FROM THAT UNSOUGHT PRICELESS ENLIGHTENMENT”. (74)

THE UPWARD SPIRAL :

Renewal is the principle – and the process – that empowers us to move on an upward spiral of growth and change, of continuous improvement.

Moving along the upward spiral requires us to learn, commit and do on increasingly higher planes. We deceive ourselves if we think that any one of these is sufficient. To keep progressing, we must learn, commit and do – learn, commit and do – and learn, commit and do again.

Thiruvalluvar says this concept beautifully in this following kural : (No: 391)

LEARN WELL WHAT SHOULD BE LEARNT, AND THEN LIVE YOUR LEARNING”. (391).

CONCLUSION:

Has Mr.Stephen Covey referred Thirukkural when he wrote his famous book? Was he influenced by the foresight and thoughts of Thiruvalluvar and picked up the Seven Habits out of the wealth of wisdom quoted in Kural? If he did, one would have expected him to acknowledge the fact. But his book does not carry any acknowledgement or references of Thirukkural. Perhaps, Mr.Covey’s thought process is his own, but the thoughts were already expressed by Valluvar twenty centuries ago.

Let us not forget that India was the centre of Excellence for Knowledge and Wisdom centuries ago, rich with the scripts upanishads, Vedas, epics and the teachings of great saints like Valluvar, Buddha, Mahavir and others. The West captures our concepts better and presents them in a manner suitable to the market.

Whenever a Westener writes something, we go ‘gaga’ over it and quote them in our talks and notes. But when something more is available in our own land, we ignore. We must understand the importance of our own ideas and respect them like the Japanese and Chinese.

It is imperative that Management thoughts and Personality development concepts are extracted from our rich collections and our youngsters are taught the Indian Management concepts. Academicians, intellectuals and Universities should come forward to initiate such exercise. Our youngsters should read our saints advice, assimilate and practice in their personal and professional life.

BIBLIOGRAPHY
1. Thirukkural – Thiruvalluvar – English Translation Rev W.H.Drew and Rev.John Lazarus – Asian Educational services – Chennai 1996.

2. Thiruvalluvar – The Kural – P.S.Sundaram – Penguin Books –1990.

3. The Seven Habits of Highly effective People – Powerful lessons in Personal change – Stephen R.Covey – Simon and Socuster – 1994.
AUTHORS

Dr.S.N.Soundara Rajan,PGDM(IIM-A) & Mrs.Shanthi Nachiappan,M.B.A.,M.Phil
Director, Assistant Professor,
V.C.M.C.S, Chennai –600 066. V.C.M.C.S., Chennai – 600 066.
e-mail: snsrajan@yahoo.com e-mail: thinsha@yahoo.com
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Rediscovering a Management and Leadership Manual in Ancient Indian Literature

Rediscovering a Management and Leadership Manual in Ancient Indian Literature
Published: October 18, 2007 in India Knowledge@Wharton



Business has often looked for guiding principles in ancient literature from various lands, including the sixth-century Chinese military treatise The Art of War, by Sun Tsu, or India's Vedas, including the battlefield epic Bhagvad Gita. Now, a new book brings to a global audience the management and leadership insights contained in the Thirukural, a collection of 1,330 aphorisms written some 2,000 years ago by Tamil poet Thiruvalluvar.

According to V. Srinivasan, author of New Age Management Philosophy from Ancient Indian Wisdom, the aphorisms, or "kurals," form a manual for governments and corporations, and they are a favorite of Indian finance minister P. Chidambaram. Srinivasan is CEO of IT services firm 3i Infotech in Edison, N.J., where he has overseen 27 acquisitions in the last seven years. He spoke about his book and the connection between ancient wisdom and modern management in an interview with India Knowledge@Wharton. An edited version of that conversation follows.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Could you tell us a little about the Thirukural?

Srinivasan: The Thirukural is believed to be about 2,000 years old. It has three parts that deal with wisdom, wealth and affection or love. Several people have analyzed it, and it has been translated into Portuguese and French.

It is considered the "Tamil Veda." (The Vedas are Sanskrit texts of Hindu wisdom.) "Veda" [means] the knowledge, realization and improvement of the self. It comes from the root "vid," meaning "knowledge." With self realization and self introspection, [people] get on a path different from those with just knowledge -- they become leaders like Mahatma Gandhi or Mother Teresa.

While the Thirukural talks of the three qualities of wisdom, wealth and love, Tamil literature talks of a fourth aspect of "veedu," which refers to God, or nirvana. One school of thought is that if you follow every "kural" (aphorism), you will automatically reach "veedu."

The Thirukural talks about how territories maximize their wealth, and how there were princes, ministers and ambassadors. You [can] equate a prince to a CEO, a minister to a COO and an ambassador to a sales and marketing executive -- the qualities prescribed for each of these functions correspond.

India Knowledge@Wharton: What aspects of the Thirukural does your book focus on?

Srinivasan: My book concentrates on the wealth aspect of the Thirukural -- how you derive wealth, protect it and improve it. Management and leadership are closely related to wealth creation.

How does the evolution of leadership take place? From our childhood, we learn a lot of things, including mathematics, physics, chemistry and economics. The next stage is the refinement of our personal qualities. When you don't have [refined] personal qualities, you may be a knowledgeable person but you don't become a leader.

What are those qualities? Courage, conviction, determination, self control, control over anger and emotions and a disciplined way of life. To become greater, you may need to give up certain things such as your ego, or "aham bhava" (arrogance) and the cravings of the five senses.

India Knowledge@Wharton: What insights could one draw upon in the present context of the sweeping changes underway in the Indian economy? What are the key takeaways for management? For example, is the Thirukural consistent with a corporation's focus on maximizing profits for its stakeholders?

Srinivasan: To maximize profits, you need strategies and implementation. Strategy is about what to do, when to do it, how to do it and where to do it. The Thirukural has chapters on each of these.

One chapter is on deliberation before action. Another is on choosing the appropriate time. A third is on choosing the appropriate place. All the ingredients for profit maximization are contained in the Thirukural.

Consider these kurals on decision making and implementation:

"The end of all deliberation is to arrive at a decision; and when a decision is reached, it is wrong to delay its execution."

"Go straight for the goal whenever circumstances permit. When circumstances are against, choose the path of least resistance."

"Five things should be carefully considered in carrying out any action -- the nature of the action, the resources in hand, the instrument, the proper time and the proper place for its execution."

And this one is on goal setting: "Let all your purposes be grand, for even if they fail, your glory will never tarnish."

Even the greatest venture that has the wrong people will not succeed. Take India's IT companies, for example. Some 20 technology companies started operations in India between 1980 and 1985, but Infosys [Technologies] and a few others succeeded; several others vanished. What is the difference? The environment was the same and they were all doing the same kind of IT projects, but leadership made the difference.

Here are two kurals on this subject:

"Men who cannot drive home their point before a learned assembly, even if they are very knowledgeable, are good for nothing."

"Behold the man who is eloquent of speech and knows neither confusion nor fear; it is impossible for anyone to defeat him."

India Knowledge@Wharton: Some of the kurals you cite in your book seem very direct and bold. One advises you against exposing your troubles and weaknesses. They are also ruthless in some places: "Fell down thorn trees when they are young..."

Srinivasan: Leaders of large corporations that become reputable invariably follow these principles. But their people at the second or third level don't know the nuances of these things. Take, for example, premature disclosure. One kural says: "Do not reveal your troubles to men who do not know them. Similarly, do not expose your weakness to your enemies." Or this: "The man of action lets his purpose appear only when the purpose is achieved, for an untimely disclosure may create obstacles that cannot be surmounted."

Even to your board, you need to disclose things only at the appropriate time in significant detail. If you have clearly articulated in your mind the pros and cons of a proposal, you are able to explain it to the board in 15 or 20 minutes and get it passed. If you discuss your proposal prematurely without having thought it out, you risk your board rejecting it.

I have seen CEOs of several midsize companies and even some bigger companies who blame their boards for not getting their proposals passed. It is predominantly because of their inefficient articulation and inability to put forward their ideas in ways [that will] carry their boards with them.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Do you recall an illustration of that?

Srinivasan: Among the people with those qualities I have personally seen are Narayanan Vaghul [chairman of India's largest private bank, ICICI] and K.V. Kamath [CEO of ICICI]. Somehow, even if the board starts out on a negative note, saying that certain proposals are not consistent with the corporation's core competence areas and so forth, they get their proposals approved.

Take, for example, the way ICICI went about its retail banking strategy in the mid-1990s. At that time, it was a predominantly corporate finance institution. Vaghul and Kamath felt the company could not continue to be viable as a project finance institution because the new economic liberalization policies restricted access to inexpensive funds and forced it to tap the public markets like others.

They went about [developing] their retail [services] through a shared vision and ruthless implementation and made it happen, although a lot of people felt ICICI did not possess the implementation capability -- HDFC was strong in housing finance, there was Citibank in auto finance, and so on. That is where Vaghul and Kamath [offered an] articulation of the competition's limitations that ICICI could take advantage of. Without that articulation, it would have been tough to get the board's approval.

India Knowledge@Wharton: What thoughts about leadership does the Thirukural offer for Indian industry, especially now that it faces a talent shortage across the board, attrition, wage inflation, etc.?

Srinivasan:
A lot of people think you become a leader by throwing your weight around -- that they need to shout at certain people and [punish them] even for small mistakes. This is particularly true of middle-level managers. Even some of the management schools create the impression that a snobbish attitude is actually helpful for leadership.

To become a leader, you have to command respect or force people to have respect for you by creating awe around yourself. The boss who forces respect is not creating a sense of belonging and togetherness, and employees will leave for better salaries. This is one reason why people complain that they cannot get the right talent; it is an indication of weakness in leadership.

Until five years ago, a strategy of forcing people to respect you worked because employment opportunities in India were scarce and people held on to their jobs like a golden cage -- they could not move out even if their leaders harassed them. Today it is an employee market, and leadership styles have to change.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Your book talks about how the Thirukural advocates an openness to dissent.

Srinivasan: Generally, a leader believes that certain things are right. He may not come to know the details of how his strategy is being implemented, and the people close to him may not reveal everything. In an open forum, even the adverse aspects will come out. But if you start punishing those who point out the adverse aspects, then nobody will give you the right information, and whatever you do will fail. A kural on this is: "A leader should have the virtue to hear the words that are bitter to his ears."

I have personally experienced this. When the second line of people in my company think what I am doing is wrong, in 75% to 80% of the cases I have been able to articulate that what I am doing is right, and they agree. And in 20% of the cases, I have agreed with what they say and changed my approach.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Thiruvalluvar also talks about how one has to be careful with the second tier of your organization's management. He seems to suggest instant sacking of undesirable people.

Srinivasan: He is advocating two things. One refers to the traitors in the camp. They know your strategy and your secrets, and help your rivals. The moment you come to know that somebody is a traitor, or even if you have a suspicion, you must remove that person or exclude him from your camp. The 10 kurals on this subject advocate a zero-tolerance approach.

Secondly, the Thirukural talks about an untrustworthy minister, or your second-in-command. It says, "He is more dangerous than even 700 million enemies."

There are many parallels here in politics and companies. People stage coups in countries because they were not removed at the right time. You will find this true also with badly planned corporate succession strategies.

The kurals talk about the desired qualities in a minister or an ambassador and advocate that the person you select must have the organization's larger objectives in mind.

India Knowledge@Wharton: What can one learn from the Thirukural about financial management?

Srinivasan: This kural is useful in financial management: "It does not matter if the feeder channel is narrow, so long as the draining channel is not wider."

You may also apply the following kural to managing your company's debt: "If you put too many of them, even the peacock's feathers would break the wagon's axle."

India Knowledge@Wharton: M&As are now a popular route for many Indian companies. But many firms are new to the game, and there are concerns about whether they have the relevant experience -- whether they might overpay and so forth.

Srinivasan: A lot of M&As are driven today by concerns that a company may not be able to grow and gain market share unless it acquires or gets acquired. Also, there is a fear among promoters that the value of their stock may fall. One kural says: "Take into consideration the inputs, the wastage, the output and the profit that an undertaking will yield; these are the yardsticks for any new venture."

The Thirukural also says: "There are enterprises that tempt with a great profit but which perish even the capital itself. Wise men will not undertake them." Also: "Before taking up any enterprise, determine first the exertion necessary, the obstacles on the way and the expected profit at the end."

In addition, the kurals encourage you to be pragmatic. For example: "When the territory of the king (market share of a company) declines, leading to a fear in the mind of the king (CEO) that he will not be able to survive the opponent (competition), it is better for him to submit to an alliance with a stronger king (acquiring company)."

Also, consider these kurals on the right time to [acquire]: "Bend down before your adversaries when they are more powerful than yourselves. They can be easily overthrown when you attack them at the moment when their power is on the decline." And: "When the tide is against you, feign inaction like the stork. When the tide is on, strike with swiftness and sure aim."

India Knowledge@Wharton: What does the Thirukural say about corporate governance and social entrepreneurship?

Srinivasan: Basically, corporate governance is openness, transparency and not doing things for private benefit. If you follow the virtues prescribed in the kurals, you will automatically be on the path of good governance. One kural says: "Let the thing you decide to do be above reproach, for the world looks down upon the man who stoops to a thing that is beneath himself."

Another kural could be related to nepotism and playing favorites: "If you choose an unfit person for your job just because you love and you like him, he will lead you to endless follies."

And there are others that could apply to social entrepreneurship, such as: "The prince (CEO) shall know how to develop the resources of his kingdom, how to enrich his treasury, how to preserve his wealth and how to spend it worthily."

India Knowledge@Wharton: You say in your book that 3i Infotech faced many challenges as it grew with acquisitions. How did you use the Thirukural to deal with them?

Srinivasan: At 3i Infotech, I relied on the Thirukural mainly in the selection and removal of a lot of people. For example, the kural [I mentioned earlier] was helpful to me: "The minister that sits in the council and plots the ruin of his prince is more dangerous than 700 million enemies." At the time, I was in India, and a senior company executive started cutting off communication with employees and became unapproachable to them. He began making it appear as if I had authorized some decisions, basing them on half-conversations with me and extracting a "yes" from me on some things.

One day, after I returned to the U.S., I realized he was dangerous to the organization. He had stepped out for lunch and when he returned I dismissed him on the spot.

I had also hired some people without proper checks and had to remove them. Another kural says: "Never trust men without testing them, and after testing them give each one of them the work for which they are fit." These days, I first place [hires] in some relatively less sensitive positions before elevating them.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Are there kurals that seem to go against popular wisdom but are, in fact, worth following?

Srinivasan: Regarding the retention of your good second-level people, one kural says that if a certain person is very good at his work, don't mind the small liberties he takes. It says: "If the king (CEO) is harsh of word and unforgiving, his prosperity, even if it is great, will end quickly." If somebody is good and you pep him up, his ego gets boosted and he may take some small advantages. If you become too tight with the rules, it may hurt him and you may lose some bigger things. That is an unconventional thought.

Another kural encourages you to make friends with your enemy's enemy. If a CEO or a minister converts an enemy's enemy into a friend, half your battle is won because your enemy is weakened -- you become two and he becomes one.

India Knowledge@Wharton: Many other ancient philosophical texts and religious works from different faiths must also have lessons for management and leadership. How is the Thirukural different?

Srinivasan: Compared to the Bhagvad Gita and the Vedas, the Thirukural goes into more detail and nuances rather than the broad philosophy. The Thirukural is more like a manual and has 10 kurals on every aspect; it lays out the procedures and processes. The other works don't talk about the right time and strategy for an enterprise, people management, and so forth.